tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18946482.post8754645362486918009..comments2023-11-20T13:40:06.750-06:00Comments on Life On The Ledge <sup>©</sup>: Lights in the DarkC. I. Maddoxhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10179906878058442041noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18946482.post-21015649559357403422015-01-30T08:33:10.650-06:002015-01-30T08:33:10.650-06:00You three, have been with me for a good portion of...You three, have been with me for a good portion of this trip. You all have been the lights on the way. I could not have survived this without the people who were in touch with me almost daily online. Each one of you are so special and have places in my heart that you can't even begin to guess. Thank you, for hanging on to me. <br /><br />I still have the ring, by the way. I was going to leave it on him but I think, at the time, I just wanted something I could hang on to. I wore if for nearly a year, either on a chain or on my finger. It fit my first finger perfectly. Oddly enough. Whenever he sized a ring for me, he simply used his pinky. My ring finger was the size of his pinky. His ring finger was the size of my first finger. Cynthia I Maddoxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09172830171634694240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18946482.post-22620000060257377872015-01-30T08:26:35.397-06:002015-01-30T08:26:35.397-06:00I'm so sorry. I met you after he was gone. And...I'm so sorry. I met you after he was gone. And even though you are doing some really good things, the pain is still raw. I know that this is a very difficult time of year. I wish there was more that I could do.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18119718461267453386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18946482.post-73694153813772215402015-01-30T03:53:11.159-06:002015-01-30T03:53:11.159-06:00I was thinking of you yesterday and wondering how ...I was thinking of you yesterday and wondering how you would spend the day. I am so cross with myself that I didn't make it to comment then. Jerry was such a handsome man and like Phyllis, I noticed the wedding band. <br /><br />I still can't begin to understand what it was like for you and how it still goes on. Despite you writing so descriptivly over the years of your pain, it is still unimaginable. All I can do is listen and try to be a friend. <br /><br />I think I have told you before that your experiences have made me stop and think so many times when I have been angry. None of us ever know what is coming around the corner.<br /><br />Sorry Cindy, I'm waffling. I guess I don't know what to say except I am as sorry now for the loss of your Jerry as I was 6 years ago. xxJillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13464199642113069252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18946482.post-33226681150079476412015-01-29T21:29:27.427-06:002015-01-29T21:29:27.427-06:00You have been a greater friend than you know. You ...You have been a greater friend than you know. You and Jilly were lights in the dark. As were so many of my Multiply friends. Cynthia I Maddoxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09172830171634694240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18946482.post-85708104430781696292015-01-29T19:09:12.553-06:002015-01-29T19:09:12.553-06:00Six years since I first heard your name. I see Je...Six years since I first heard your name. I see Jerry's photo and notice his wedding band. I only met him through your memories. I felt on the outside edge of two sets of pain in 2009, as my sister acquired the "widow" title three days before you did. I pray I'm able to provide some sort of support for both of you.Phyllis Blickensderferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03206757687699759551noreply@blogger.com